Structure & planning for autistic adults and adolescents; care & coaching for their families.

Guides

Written notes, free to read, no email required.

Most of what I would say in a first session is written down here. Read one, ignore the rest, and come back when there is a reason to. Nothing on this page asks you for anything.

For autistic adults

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2 min read

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Coaching isn’t covered by insurance and no coach can give you a superbill. Here’s why, and what the alternatives actually cost.

For parents

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1 min read

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Seven sentences that hold a boundary without escalating the room. Copy them, adapt them, read them off your phone.

For autistic adults

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1 min read

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Why “he could do it if he wanted to” is almost always the wrong diagnosis, and what to look at instead.

For autistic adults

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1 min read

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Disclosure is a series of small decisions, not one announcement. A framework for deciding how much, to whom, and when.

For schools and clinicians

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1 min read

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What tends to help, what tends to make it worse, and why the usual incentive charts often fail.