Guides
Written notes, free to read, no email required.
Most of what I would say in a first session is written down here. Read one, ignore the rest, and come back when there is a reason to. Nothing on this page asks you for anything.
For parents
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9 min read
Eleven sentences that hold a boundary without escalating the room. Copy them, adapt them, read them off your phone.
For autistic adults
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6 min read
Why “he could do it if he wanted to” is almost always the wrong diagnosis, and what to look at instead.
For autistic adults
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8 min read
Disclosure is a series of small decisions, not one announcement. A framework for deciding how much, to whom, and when.
For schools and clinicians
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5 min read
What tends to help, what tends to make it worse, and why the usual incentive charts often fail.